It’s a Metaphor
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee…
…pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness…
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “yes”.
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things-your God, your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions — things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job,your house, and your car. The sand is everything else — the small stuff.”
“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first — the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand”.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. “I’m glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.”
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That is a great story, I’m going to hang on to it.
I’m also adding you to my blog roll right now.
I very much liked this story and I am going to use it in a point that I was trying to make this morning…you have to make time for affection.
There is a difference between saying you know affection is important and actually doing it. A person has to show their loved ones how they feel…not just think it or show it only when a complaint is made.
I grew up in a household where there was…and is…very little signs of affection. I can tell you that affection is like anything else…if it is not used it becomes weak (it can even eventually become animosity).
Affectionate someone today.
Absolutely wonderful! Truely first-class!
:)
I think the story would have been better if beer was poured instead. Kidding.
Thanks for all the kind words. It’s one of those pieces I wish that I did write. And yes, beer would have been better